Read at your own risk—doing so may open a Pandora’s Box of Possibilities that can lead to you taking a cold, hard look at your life, and deciding to make drastic changes.
If you’re feeling like you’re selling your soul to a firm that couldn’t care less about your wellbeing.
If you’re tired of hearing about your friends who are married and have families, while you’re looking out your office window surrounded by piles of papers.
If you’re seriously considering throwing in the towel and doing something else with your life.
Welcome to the dark side of law, the side that no one tells you about. The water is not warmer. The grass is not greener. And the donuts are stale.
Sure, you knew you had to work hard to achieve your goals, and paying your dues was necessary to climb the hierarchy.
And when you were younger, all that probably sounded exhilarating. After all, you are driven, smart, have a successful track record, and know how to get things done. There is nothing better than being a part of a big client win and celebrating with your team.
There comes a point though when you realize success as you (or your employer) have defined it so far isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. You may even feel guilty for being so unhappy after everything you’ve done to get where you are.
I mean, you have it all right? The house. The car. The salary.
All that money you’re earning and the possessions you’re accumulating aren’t filling the void you feel in your heart and soul . . .
And that sucks.
It’s time to open Pandora’s Box because there IS more out there.
What most women in your situation don’t realize is that there are alternatives. And those alternatives don’t have to mean changing careers or even firms.
What If . . .
You could negotiate a four-day workweek to dedicate more time to the things that matter most to you?
You could balance a successful legal career with being an active, present parent?
You could become an equity partner while maintaining a fulfilling family life?
You could secure a flexible work schedule that allows you to attend important family events?
You could attend your children’s school events without guilt or penalty?
All of these are possible.
How do I know? Well . . . let me tell you.
If We Haven't Met Yet . . .
My name is Tracy Callahan and I’ve been working behind the scenes in the legal industry for more than 30 years.
I have spent many years being responsible for attorney recruiting and outplacement, so I see all of the negotiating that goes on behind the scenes. I have seen many firms lose talented attorneys simply because firm leadership was unaware of their struggles until it was too late to address the issues and keep them on board.
I also have had a front-row seat to how different firms operate and I can tell you—they are not all the same.
Now, I dedicate myself to helping women attorneys define their own ‘Top of the Mountain’ goals and create a step-by-step, results-focused plan to achieve the life they envision without abandoning their ambition of succeeding in private practice and thriving personally.
Most attorneys don’t realize the power they hold and are unaware of the wide range of possibilities and diverse ways they can thrive within private practice.
Gone are the days when becoming an equity partner is the ultimate mark of stability
(or having to sell your soul to get there).
Here are the days of setting boundaries on your time and finding more fulfilling ways to define success.
Thrive in Private Practice
Empowering Women Attorneys for Success and Well-being
How It Works
When I work with my clients, we do two things . . . we plan and we do. While I make it sound simple, it’s hard work.
1. The Planning: Your Top of the Mountain
We begin our work by getting to the heart of who you are and what you value. This will help you create a clearer picture—or your Top of the Mountain, as I call it—of what peak success—both personal and professional—looks like to you. Then, we can use this picture as a touchstone for making decisions as you move forward.
In this phase, we will:
- Get real about what you truly value and want personally and professionally
- Reassess your relationship with what loyalty and success mean to you
- Decide what can and cannot be changed
- Craft a comprehensive depiction of what your Top of the Mountain looks like.
- Get clear on why the juice is worth the squeeze (so I can remind you when the going gets tough!)
2. The Doing: Action with Intention
As I’ve mentioned, I’ve supported the legal industry for 30 years, with firms ranging from 3 to 2,000 attorneys. I know how the wacky world of law firm partnerships operates—where most “rules” are actually just guidelines. This gives YOU a secret advantage because I can help you negotiate for what you want, uncover opportunities you didn’t know existed, and if necessary . . . find you a firm that is a better fit.
With your Top of the Mountain as your touchstone, we get to work on making it happen. This journey looks different for everyone because your situation and desires are unique.
The first six months of our engagement are dedicated to brainstorming, deciding, practicing, and role-playing—fine-tuning every aspect of your plan. It’s about defining the steps and skills you need to reach your goals. We only begin implementation in the final two months, setting the stage for you to take the reins once our coaching concludes confidently.
In this phase we . . .
- Delineate the personal and professional skills necessary to achieve your new goals.
- Engage in role-playing and practice conversations and negotiations aimed at attaining your desired outcome.
- Create plans A, B, and C for every scenario, ensuring you never settle.
- Incorporate structured feedback loops to track progress and adjust our strategies, reinforcing accountability throughout the process.
- Continually assess, adjust, and upskill until you feel confident navigating independently.
When we’re finished, you’ll look back and wonder how you were even surviving, and move forward with clarity and confidence in your path ahead. You’ll graduate after eight months with everything you need to move forward independently, but I’ll be available via phone and email on an as-needed basis. You’re implementing your plan to your Top of the Mountain, knowing guidance is always within reach.
Curious about what’s possible for you? Let’s schedule a confidential call to begin exploring your options.
Commit To Lasting Change
I’ve designed our experience together to be comprehensive and impactful, typically spanning at least eight months. This time frame allows us to thoroughly navigate the intricacies and obstacles that may arise, ensuring you have ample opportunity to develop and master new skills. This period is crucial for implementing lasting changes both in your personal and professional life, ultimately bringing your Top of the Mountain to fruition.
And, what kind of changes can you expect? The possibilities are endless . . . Here are a few highlights of the transformation you can expect in your personal and professional life . . .
Personal:
- Improved ability to prioritize personal life and career, leading to a more balanced and fulfilling lifestyle.
- Strategies to manage stress and prevent burnout.
- Enhanced self-confidence in professional and personal decision-making.
- Achievement of both short-term and long-term personal and professional goals.
- Enhanced overall mental and emotional well-being through stress management and mindfulness techniques.
- Greater overall satisfaction with life, stemming from achieving a harmonious balance between professional and personal aspirations.
Professional:
- Clearer understanding and alignment of career goals with personal values.
- Increased chances of securing promotions within your firm.
- Potential for higher earnings through negotiation skills and career advancement.
- Greater fulfillment and engagement in your current role.
- Identification and pursuit of more suitable job opportunities within or outside your current firm.
- Improved ability to strategically position yourself for career growth.
Packages: Your Future Starts Now
Commit to Reaching Your Top of the Mountain
Embark on a tailored, holistic, one-on-one coaching experience with me over eight months to create a detailed, step-by-step plan for your career in private practice and personal success. The default payment method is monthly, but flexible payment plans are available. I also offer a Commitment Reward for those who choose to pay in full at the time of engagement. No matter which payment option you choose, my Happiness Guarantee ensures that if you’re not feeling happier and more aligned with your core values after the first month, I’ll refund your payment—because your success is my priority.
Explore two tailored coaching packages designed to meet your unique needs.
When we connect, we’ll discuss which option aligns best with your goals and aspirations.
Essential
This package is best for those who prefer to self-manage and do more on their own between calls.-
Bi-weekly sessions (60 minutes each)
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Continuous email support
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Comprehensive Personalized Assessment
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Customized Action Plan (Touchstone Document)
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End-of-program in-depth reviews and optimization of your resume and LinkedIn profile
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Ongoing progress tracking and adjustments to the action plan
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Access to curated resources and reading materials
VIP
This package is best for those who want a more white-glove experience, with more hands-on input and deliverables, including a holistic wellness plan that goes beyond your career.-
Bi-Weekly sessions (up to 90 minutes each for more in-depth coaching)
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Unlimited on-demand check-in calls, texts, and emails for urgent matters or quick advice
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Comprehensive Personalized Assessment
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Customized Action Plan (Touchstone Document)
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Two additional sessions over the course of the 8 months for extra support
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Facilitate introductions to key contacts in the industry
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Accountability check-ins via email or text.
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Customized reading lists tailored to your professional and personal development
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End-of-program in-depth reviews and optimization of your resume and LinkedIn profile
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Creation of a cohesive personal brand, including online presence and networking strategies
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Monthly progress reports to monitor growth and areas for improvement
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Personalized wellness plan to ensure holistic success that fits your needs and goals.
By committing to this process, you are not just investing in a program; you are investing in a future where your career and personal life are in harmony, where you achieve fulfillment and success on your terms.
Happiness Guarantee
My mission is to support you on your path to a more fulfilling, prioritized life.
If, after one month of coaching, you’re not feeling happier, more confident, and more aligned with your core values, I’ll refund your payment—no hard feelings, because your well-being matters most.
This is a great opportunity for you if you’re . . .
- Struggling to find a balance between professional success and personal fulfillment.
- Longing to spend quality time with your loved ones and tired of missing out on important moments.
- Concerned about how your career might impact your ability to start or raise a family.
- Envious of friends who enjoy greater job flexibility and work-life harmony.
- Feeling burnt out and seeking ways to reignite your passion for your private practice career.
- Overwhelmed by the demands of your job and looking for strategies to manage stress.
- Aspiring to advance in your career without sacrificing your well-being.
- Looking to determine if personal fulfillment is possible with your current firm or requires moving to a different firm.
- Determined to achieve your career goals without compromising your personal values and well-being.